Susie's guest this week is Ian Kerner, the best selling author of Be Honest - You're Not that Into Him Either and She Comes First. With years of personal and clinical experience between them, Susie and Ian debate the sexual dilemmas facing women and men these days - everything from dating, marriage, porn, body image, and much, much more. Then, Susie and Ian Kerner tackle a Try This at Home mailbag question from a woman who says she feels like her whole sex life has become just one big performance. Don't forget, you can send your confidential sex questions and feedback about the show to susie@audible.com. (Episode 191) Explicit Language Warning: You must be 18 years or older to purchase this program.