[Contains explicit content] Susie talks to novelist James Grainger. His book Harmless explores sex and masculinity in the aging Gen-X crowd. How do you write one sex scene to thrill and another to horrify? They discuss titillation and sexual reality - and threading the needle.

Have a question or news story for Susie? You can send your confidential queries and comments to susie@susiebright.com. [Episode 700, April 15, 2016]